tag:aliceinwonderland.blog.co.uk,2009-11-09:/MokoFeed2009-11-09T12:03:47+01:00tag:aliceinwonderland.blog.co.uk,2008-10-13:/2005/07/12/title_10999/#c7987390Angeles2008-10-13T09:29:46+02:002008-10-13T09:29:46+02:00Hi,<br> I have not heard form you for a long time. i lost all your contact details. How are things? If you have my email address, send me an email please. i miss our conversations. tag:aliceinwonderland.blog.co.uk,2005-07-18:/2005/07/12/title_10999/#c54284deleted user2005-07-18T06:18:25+02:002005-07-18T06:18:25+02:00Oh dear, another sad story. I don't know whether or not the following quotation will help, but here goes:<br> "The ones we love, we do not judge, and the ones we don't care for, do not interest us in any case." Wordsworth<br> Regards<br> Dawntag:aliceinwonderland.blog.co.uk,2005-07-15:/2005/07/12/title_10999/#c51728buddies2005-07-15T11:24:17+02:002005-07-15T11:24:17+02:00Maybe the idea is not to stop thinking of him but to stop thinking that you lost. On the whole, each relationship is a set of wins and gains for both parties. It becomes more complicated when finances and shared properties are involved and perhaps that is why you are mourning; now that the flat is sold, there is nothing that bind to this man, and I say that with caution, and that is the sad part.<br> Mariand; you say you split up, obviously you had your reasons but if he was worthy of your efforts, don’t you think he would have made an attempt to claim you back, change his behaviour, be a better more sensible person; HE DIDNT. He chose to stay at your shared property, a place where he paid nothing to maintain.<br> Don’t fight what you are feeling, talking about it is great but allowing your self to go through the process, despite of it being draining is also a great therapeutic approach.<br> We should know, we are supposedly the experts ;))<br>